Great question!
Looking back I would have appreciated more verbal/rote/auditory activities in school. The sense I got from my teachers (this was the late 90s) was that such learning was slowly being replaced, where possible, with more modern, interactive and visual lessons. We were supposed to be grateful. My experience was that often what my teachers thought of as “progress” actually preyed on my deficits. Hopefully the 4 examples below help illustrate how I felt growing up in that environment.
1. Computerized Activities (are they really progress?)
These were all the rage. Like a lot of NVLD people I have terrible handwriting and thus I’m very grateful to have grown up with computers. Growing up I found, however, that computer-assisted learning often meant more visual information and visual reasoning. I was particularly upset in 8th grade science when they used a computer program to teach us physics of motion. I remember that the program animated rocket launches and then presented us with questions to answer. I did terribly.
The irony was that the end of the unit exam was a paper and pencil test full of word problems. I got an A. The teacher actually scolded me, thinking I must not have been applying myself on the previous, computer-assisted activities.
But in light of NVLD it makes perfect sense that word problems were easier for me. “A rocket is launched at 300mph” is easier for me to understand than an animation of the same scenario, where I have to decipher what I’m looking at.
The most frustrating part of this experience for me was my teacher constantly telling our class how advanced the computer-assisted curriculum was and how lucky we all were to have it. The word gaslighting has become very popular recently and it accurately describes how I felt. The computer program may have helped other kids but it sure didn’t help me and no way was I going to be grateful for it. Assuming all kids would benefit is a great example of an interactive/visual bias in teaching and the fallacy of a picture being “worth a thousand words” - it doesn’t apply to us.
2. Learning through Song and Verbal Repetition
In kindergarten they taught us the alphabet and the months of the year through song. This was great for me as someone with excellent auditory/verbal memory (like a lot of NVLD-people). I still remember those songs. A few years later it was time to memorize math facts, which was done primarily through written tests, and so at first I struggled to learn the multiplication tables. At home my parents quizzed me verbally, which is how I eventually learned them.
Interesting story: much later in High School I watched an old French movie with a scene in which elementary school kids learn the multiplication tables through a song-like, teacher-lead full class repetition. I was livid when I saw that. Why wasn’t I allowed to learn that way? It would have made things so much easier.
It is, after all, so simple and efficient to lead a classroom in a daily recitation of important facts. My guess is that this sort of thing has fallen out of favor because it seems “old-fashioned” and no longer appropriate except for really young kids. But why? Why can’t there be more of this?
3. Memorizing Poems in Literature Class
I was also gaslit on this in 10th grade when the teacher literally told us it was a bit of an antiquated activity and she was only assigning it as a throwback to an earlier time. The message was that a modern poetry class should spend more time analyzing and interpreting poems and not waste time memorizing. Of course I did very well owing to my verbal/auditory memory. Again it left me angry and wondering why these sorts of activities had fallen out of fashion? Why was I only good as “outdated” activities?
4. Memorizing Dates/Facts in History Class
Same as above. Teachers told us that just memorizing things was not appropriate for learning - better to learn concepts and do activities like looking at historical artifacts. They told us we’d remember things better this way. Deciphering historical artifacts is, mind you, a highly visual activity. Again I felt gaslit because I knew I was good at memorization but was being told I was wrong, that my desires were outdated, and that the teachers knew best. The irony here is that NVLD people are thought to need things to be verbally coded. A little memorization of dates and facts would have helped me place everything I was learning.